The best way to learn how to play Go is to start playing games with people. Board size 9x9 is a good start. After som practice runs against weak computer bots, I thought I was ready to play other people in 9x9. By doing this, I've learned one important thing about my play: apparently I don't put my mind into the game. I play instinctively without any good instincts. I still can't read the board very well and I can't count points. I thought I knew the rules about the game, but I still know nothing about the endgame.
The following game is between chibisai [5k] and myself, Ekorren [20k]. We agreed to an even game even though my opponent is much more skilled and experienced. She would go easy on me though. We discussed the game in detail afterwards and I could feel that I learned a lot from it. I want to thank her for that. I played black and she was white.
Many of my comments below are details I learned during the review after the game. I'm far from experienced enough to review my own games rationally. I'm sure anyone with more than a week of Go experience would chuckle mocklingly at my horrible play in the game below, but keep in mind that it's one of my first games ever played. I would very much appreciate if you would write a comment to this post, showing me faults in my review as well as giving me feedback on how to improve my game.



My biggest mistake was placing D6 after she placed E6 to atari because I didn't see that she had atari on me at the same time. However, since she is a much better player than I am, she ignored her atari and let me keep the center and instead let me capture her stone at E6. In a real game, she would have placed D5 and captured the five center stones. This would have forced me to resign. But since this was basically a tutoring game to help me feel more comfortable with the game, she put her stone at B3 instead of taking the center. I captured, she placed her stone at H7, opening up for new attacks. It's possible that attacking her last stone from H8 would have been my best option if I wanted any chances of evening out the scores. No matter what I do at this point I would still lose the game, but we continued further to give me some more battle training.

The first questionable move among those recorded on this picture is the one at H6. If I wanted to assault H7, I should have done so from H8. Since this move was stupid anyway, I ignored the atari and retaliated at A5 (though this pretty much helped my opponent to spread upwards). What I could have done after H5 instead of the atari on A5 is to atari on B2. This would have forced white to respond either at C2 (or at A4 which would have captured my stone at B4). If white would have responded with the capture, I could go C2, letting white capture my stone at A3 and then atari at D1. White's entire bottom center would have been killed and I could have won the game. I wouldn't see something like that though, and I wouldn't have found that path if my opponent hadn't told me after the game.
Going back to the atari at A5, everything would have been better than that. Atari from B6 would have been much better because then I would have the upper hand of the top left territory.

The main point why I decided to show this game is because I want some feedback on how I can improve the game. Is it true that I play too defensively? How should I do to better block my opponent's progression? All tips are helpful. I also posted this game because it was one of my first games ever played and I know that I can look back at it in a year or two with a smile.